things you should know

I am an introvert and the oldest of 12.

I'm an Enneagram 5 - an Observer. I'm always thinking. I'm usually the quietest person in the room on purpose. I'm a realist and seek truth, loyalty, independence, and genuine relationships. I crave intellectual conversations but despise small talk. It's me, girl, not you. 

I’m a walking fact checker and yes I’m judging you. 

I'm the Olivia Pope of friends. I’m the one everyone turns to when they are in a crisis. I'm also the check on you friend. If you don't answer my call in a reasonable time, I might show up at your doorstep, with your favorite bottle and charcuterie board in hand.

I love to celebrate others and throw ridiculously obnoxious parties.

I love my HBCU. 

I am a small business champion.

I love DIY home projects.

Cooking Sunday brunch is my jam.

My favorite Saturday errand is walking the Aldi’s Aisle of Shame.

I'm obsessed with politics. Women's rights are human rights. We shut that patriarchy noise down over here.

I don't drink alcohol or coffee.

I value privacy, self-care and healthy boundaries. I fiercely protect my peace.

Yes, I'm one of those well-rested weirdos. I will always make time for eight hours of sleep every night. Sleep is non-negotiable.

One of the best compliments I've ever received is, "you make me think I can win and believe it." That is my superpower!

If I'm your cup of tea, please stick around for a while.